Losing a spouse can be one of the most difficult and traumatic experiences a person can go through. One of the most challenging aspects of widowhood can be the feeling of isolation and disconnection from the world and lowliness. And those are very challenging situations for a woman to go through alone. Coping with isolation…
When it Began – What ‘Walking out of Widowhood’ means! The Loss of my beloved late husband in 2013 changed the complete trajectory of my life. It meant I lost my sweetheart that I had known for 27 years. I was 21 and he was 23 when we met. The question when it happened was,…
When I lost my husband 8 years ago, I can honestly say it was the most challenging valley I found myself. Plus, the highest mountain I have had to climb over. When this happened, I had the personal choice to either to drown or swim. The greatest gift God has given me, to enable my…
The month of December has always been a special month as I celebrate my year of Life. However, in 2013 this was presented as a different and shocking narrative, as my husband passed away. It has been the most challenging event in my life. However, reflecting on after 8 years it has given me a…
June is a month in which international widows’ day is acknowledged and it reviews the support widows are getting or not getting around the world. One common trend is that it repeats annually various statistics on widow neglect, poverty, lack of status, pure gloom, and doom. I appreciate it is an opportunity for charities and…
Forgiveness can be one courageous act to undertake. The Soul can unconsciously hold hidden and secret faults. One of such is unforgiveness. So, it requires digging deeper from our spirit to discover this. When found we can release ourselves and others from the offences done to us. Hurt, pain, and disappointment impact our minds first,…
People can function daily, unconsciously as wounded souls. We wonder how this can be. This is because wounds are concealed in the heart, as raw sores. These are wounds that have not yet healed. What does a wound look like? There are two kinds of wounds the physical wound caused by an injury that cuts…