I intend to write on despair, what it means, how it could happen and how to prevent it happening to you while grieving. Despair could come from a traumatic event or an abrupt change in circumstances, that has suddenly occurred in our lives. This could be an incident that takes place suddenly without being prepared…
I am writing today about time and change. On how these two events are natural processes of life. How time and change impacts of your journey of walking through widowhood. How with time and change beauty can be seen in the loss experienced. Plus, five timeless keys to engineer your productive lifestyle. Time is the continued…
When it Began – What ‘Walking out of Widowhood’ means! The Loss of my beloved late husband in 2013 changed the complete trajectory of my life. It meant I lost my sweetheart that I had known for 27 years. I was 21 and he was 23 when we met. The question when it happened was,…
The month of December has always been a special month as I celebrate my year of Life. However, in 2013 this was presented as a different and shocking narrative, as my husband passed away. It has been the most challenging event in my life. However, reflecting on after 8 years it has given me a…
June is a month in which international widows’ day is acknowledged and it reviews the support widows are getting or not getting around the world. One common trend is that it repeats annually various statistics on widow neglect, poverty, lack of status, pure gloom, and doom. I appreciate it is an opportunity for charities and…
Forgiveness can be one courageous act to undertake. The Soul can unconsciously hold hidden and secret faults. One of such is unforgiveness. So, it requires digging deeper from our spirit to discover this. When found we can release ourselves and others from the offences done to us. Hurt, pain, and disappointment impact our minds first,…
When I lost my husband 8 years ago, I can honestly say it was the most challenging valley I found myself. Plus, the highest mountain I have had to climb over. When this happened, I had the personal choice to either to drown or swim. The greatest gift God has given me, to enable my…
In this article I am going to cover some key factors that ensure you remain proactive during your recovery period as a Widow. And what things or acts to avoid. The Key to successfully being initiative-taking in your recovery from grief is based purely within you. That is how strong you are in your Soul….
This article aims to encourage you on the fact that a bruised heart from adversity can heal, and open up to love again. I will explain how to keep your heart open and one of the qualities you will need to hone to successfully thread this water of loving again. As a young child I…
I am writing about LOVE this week. Defining unconditional love being the ultimate love you can express to anyone. How Love heals and restores the most broken soul from pain and brokenness. This is very much applicable when a widow is walking the path of recovery. The Trauma and distress of losing a husband is…